Let me ask you another question:

Do you see the world as if nobody is alone, or as if everybody is alone?

Think about it for a bit.

Your answer to that simple question might explain why you act the way you do.

Why you are a pessimist or an optimist.

Why you pull people close or push people away.

It might explain why you feel lonely, if you do.

If your current view isn’t working so well for you, don’t worry.  You don’t need a spiritual awakening to jump ship and join the other team.

You just have to decide you want to.

I won’t tell you which one to pick, but I will tell you this: pick the one that makes you feel more hopeful, peaceful and happy.